Have you visited out
ArchWired members map lately? We have almost 200 members
giving a "shout out" from the four corners of the world!
There are so many members, the map can't display them all at
once when it loads unless you ask it to. Here's what it
looked like (total members) at the end of December:
I think this is so cool. It's one
thing to know that we have readers everywhere, but it's another
thing to see it like this on a map. And this is just a fraction
of the people who read ArchWired and are active on the Forum. It
really drives home how this has become a global community made
possible by the internet!
And speaking of an international
community, there are three little flag icons on the home page
which contain basic information about ArchWired in three
languages: German, French, and Spanish. More may by added
Last month's Braces Poll asked how
braces would be effect the outcome of a job interview. I was
surprised how many people thought that braces evoke a negative
response in prospective employer (35%), but most people thought
that the response would be either neutral (41%) or positive
From what I've learned by reading
what job seekers say in our Metal Mouth Forum, braces do NOT
seem to be an issue in a job interview, nor do they give the
prospective employer a bad impression. I think that prospective
employers probably think it's a positive, because it shows that
you are taking care of yourself and that you value your own
I actually have some dental news
of my own, but it's not too good. A small piece of my bottom
Hawley retainer broke the other day, out of the blue. The
retainer still fits in my mouth just fine. Upon closer
examination, I realized that the metal piece that broke is a
support that helps keep the retainer stiff. Fortunately I have
another previous one that fits just fine, so I'm using that for
now. I am supposed to see Dr. Vogt (my ortho) in a few week, so
I'll ask him what he thinks. I'm sure it can't be fixed.
The continuing saga of my health
problems reaches a conclusion. After a full sinus CT scan and a
full lung test done in the hospital, I am totally in the clear.
No sinus problems. Absolutely no asthma -- perfect lungs -- so
fortunately it is not Reactive Airway Disease. So what is/has
been my problem? All that is left is Reflux. Specifically a type
of Reflux called LPR -- the type that is in your upper digestive
tract. I've been on acid reducing meds for about a month
(otherwise known as Proton Pump Inhibitors, or PPIs for short).
I've also been on a reduced acid diet, which is a fancy way of
saying that I've been eating bland boring food and staying away
from all tomato products, coffee, tea, vinegar, and most
chocolate. I mean....how can a person totally give up chocolate?
Especially a woman! That is just asking too much! So I eat it in
happy to report that the PPI drug (Aciphex) has been doing a
great job, helped I'm sure by my bland bland bland diet. (I had
been taking Prilosec OTC but it wasn't strong enough -- Aciphex
is by prescription). It's possible that the antibiotics I took (Augmentin)
and the inhalers (Advair and Atrovent) contributed to the
Reflux. I'm hoping (cross my fingers) that this is a temporary
thing and will resolve itself within a couple of months with the
help of the meds. I can't go much longer without my beloved
Indian food, and you can't live in California without eating
Mexican food. How I miss salsa!
This is so weird, because I never
realized that I had "heartburn." My symptoms were so minor that
I never really noticed them, but that is the way LPR is -- they
call it "silent reflux." Since being on the meds I've felt SO
MUCH better. I never realized that I recently had a minor
tightness in my chest, or that I seemed to clear my throat a
lot, or that my "post nasal drip" might not be what it appeared.
Oh yeah, one more thing. The doctor had my blood tested for a
bacteria called Pylori (which gives people ulcers and heartburn
symptoms). Fortunately that test came back negative, too.
In my research (you know I
had to do research about this) I found a message board
similar to our own, but of course this one is all about
Heartburn. It is called The Heartburn Help Message Board and it
is run by a guy who calls himself Hawk. I found some great
advice and information on this board. If you suffer from Reflux,
take a look at this board. The main website is
and the Message Board
goes by the same name.
I have continued my ongoing
project of cleaning out closets and junk in preparation for the
upcoming Floor Refinishing Project in our house -- which will
begin in mid-January (Oh God help me!)
Our house was built in the
mid-1950s and there are still some crappy looking old elements
inside of it, including these old square ceiling lights -- an
early and ugly attempt at "recessed" lighting. Finally we had
them ripped out and replaced with real recessed lights. Wow,
what a great difference! We also had an exhaust fan installed in
the kids' bathroom. We had a stall door installed on the tub a
few months ago and now that the kids are using that bathroom for
regular showers, we needed better ventilation in that room. I'm
just trying to do all the messy stuff while we still have the
gross old carpet, because now I don't care if it gets dirty.
Anyway, in case you don't know,
refinishing the floors means moving all the furniture out. For a
family of four. All of it. Well, except for the kitchen and the
bathrooms. It's almost as bad as moving.
I spent most of December going
through closets, mostly my kids' closets. If you have kids you
know that the word challenge doesn't even begin to
describe the task. But fortunately my kids fully understood and
they actually consented to giving away and throwing
out some of their stuff! Bags and bags and bags of stuff
went to Goodwill. And bags and bags and bags of junk went to the
dumpster. And one big bag of pristine stuffed animals and dolls
went to a local battered/homeless shelter (because I really
thought those kids could appreciate some really nice toys). Oh
yeah, I also sold a few choice items of value on eBay and got a
pretty decent price for them.
Every nook and cranny (OK, well
almost every one) has gotten the once-over. Why am I being so
anal about this? For one thing, my family tends to be a bunch of
packrats. And secondly, I refuse to schlep a bunch of useless
crap into boxes, and then be forced to put it back on the
shelves when the floors are done. So we have downsized
considerably. When your old "business suits" appear on VH1's "I
Love the 80s" you know it's time to throw them in a big black
trash bag and drive them to their new home at the Goodwill.
Someone, somewhere is jonesing for a long purple jacket with really
really big padded shoulders, I just know it.
I also got rid of what my daughter
calls my "mom jeans." I am so mortified. I never realized that I
sometimes wore Mom Jeans. In fact until recently I'd never heard
of Mom Jeans. Then I saw it a parody of it on VH1. Or was it
MTV? And now that I know about them, I don't want them on my
body or in my closet. I am a new convert to the temple of the
Low Rise Flair. My daughter breathes a huge sigh of relief. I
think I'll raise her allowance for helping me end my membership
in The Potentially Frumpy Mom Club. You know you're getting
older when your kids can actually offer you valid fashion
advice. It's pretty scary.
In terms of the actual
refinishing, we've had to change our plans a few times. We
verbally hired one contractor who promptly began to flake out on
us. Fortunately we never signed any papers with him and today
I'm giving him the heave-ho. We found another contractor who is
a bit more expensive but who actually returns our phone calls
and has great references.
We're still trying to figure out
the "where we're going to live while this is taking place" part
of the project.
One thing is for sure: the
month of January will not be boring.
Aaargh, I just spent a small
fortune at Pottery Barn Teen online. I promised my older
daughter that we'd re-do her room after the floors get done
-- eventually. But then the other day a new PB Teen
catalogue came in the mail. There's a particular sheet set
that she loves. And a particular bed. Not to mention a rug.
And a lamp. And a pillow. Oh, and that chair is so cute and
it would be so perfect!
Well I didn't buy all of it. I
bought the sheet set and the pillows because I realized that
although the catalog was new, some of the items were already
going "sold out." If we waited another month or two they would
no longer be available. So much for "waiting until later" as I'd
promised my husband. Everything in this catalogue is sorta mix
and match which is both a blessing and a curse. Do we coordinate
the sheets with the pink or the blue accessories? Which would
look better? Who knows....better order both and we can return
the ones we don't like. Or sell them on eBay (a lot of this
stuff winds up on eBay, it turns out). I did my order on the
phone because I was having trouble finding what we wanted
online. I cringed when they told me the total. I warned my
daughter that she'd be living with this style for....well,
basically the rest of her time here in the house...ya know, like
I don't have a lot of
confidence in her style decision. Kids can be so flighty and
flippant about these things. First she wanted her room to be
"minimalist Scandinavian" and now suddenly she wants "colorful
teen." I might wind up needing to return the whole darn thing
and start over from scratch. (no no, please no!)
Choosing paint colors for her room
will be our next fun romp. And a new decent desk. After that, it
will all be accessories -- drapes, lamps, rugs -- that will be
re-doing rooms but at the same time it is a major headache. You
have an idea of what you want, but the trouble is finding it.
Searching for stuff is exhausting. The Internet makes it a lot
easier -- you can spend hours surfing and getting an idea what's
out there without schlepping all over town. That's why I
relented and bought my daughter's stuff from the PB Teen
catalogue. It's a little more expensive than what I could find
for her at Bed Bath and Beyond or Target, but it will save me
HOURS of searching and running around. You like that one?
Fine. Point, click, done.
Speaking of finding things on the
internet -- I've been looking a lot of furniture online. We are
(finally) re-doing a lot of stuff in our house in the next few
* A new dining
room set and matching china cabinet (I've never had a china
cabinet, so it's about time!) The formal dining table we have
now was given to us by a relative who didn't need it anymore,
and it's not our style at all.
* Living room furniture (notice I
didn't say new living room furniture....that's because we
barely have any furniture in there now, so we're finally getting
something decent to sit on!) The living room will also get 2
rugs and new drapes (I'm dreading the drape part because I fear
it will be very expensive).
*New TV room furniture (because
the junky stuff we had in there for years when the kids were
small is trashed and we deserve something good -- not to mention
some real storage so their games and books aren't always
spilling out onto the floor).
*Re-doing my older daughter's room
(as I mentioned above). New bed, new bedding, new desk, a rug,
lamps, new paint, new drapes, and God knows what else. NO
FLOKATI RUG! Those things are just too darned weird and you
can't vacuum them!
while my head was spinning looking at various pieces of
furniture last night on the web, I think I found the china
cabinet and matching dining set we will get. This is very
exciting because I thought I'd be searching FOREVER to find it
and I just stumbled across it by accident. It was one of those
"OH MY GOD THIS IS IT -- I LOVE THIS!" moments that one hopes
for when shopping for furniture. I'm hoping to be able to
see it in person in a nearby store sometime soon. If it turns
out to be the set we get, then that's one set of items I can
cross off my long list!
Speaking of all this re-doing, work gets started on our floors
on Monday (in 3 days)! The moving guys came the other day and
put all of the furniture from the bedrooms and the TV room into
the living room. Everything is all jammed together. It's insane.
Thank God for those Ziploc Big Bags! Phase 1 starts Monday when
those 4 rooms and the hallway will get done. That will take a
little more than a week. Then the furniture gets moved back in,
and the living room/dining room furniture gets put into the
garage. Then Phase 2 begins: the living/dining room and the
entryway (which is now yucky tile and will be changed to
matching hardwood). That will take at least another week. We
won't be back to "status quo" until early February. At least we
still have full use of our kitchen through all of this.
We decided not to get a hotel
room. We have a couple of rooms upstairs which I recently
de-cluttered. The kids' airbeds will go on the floor in one room
and hubby and I will sleep in the guest bedroom. We'll all
share a small bathroom. A little tight on space, but for a few
days it should work out fine. That's what I keep telling
myself....it will all work out fine.....
Well, the floors are 75%
done. We spent a rather painful 10 days crammed into our
upstairs while they did the first half of the house (which
included the bedrooms). Turns out, the floors were in
terrific shape. There were only a few scratches in them
(which sanded out fine) and only a couple of pieces of wood
that needed to be replaced. We really lucked out! The floors
had an unusually heavy coating of wax on them, which the
floor guys labored to removed with at least 3 sandings. But
when they finally got down to the bare wood -- it was
amazing -- like new! All that wax had protected the wood and
kept it in pristine condition!
I chose a light golden stain for
the floors (which are red oak). I originally had wanted to go
with "natural," but because the floors are old, "natural no
stain" would show more of the imperfections. The light golden
stain is just enough to give the wood some character yet provide
the day came when we could move the furniture back in, and it
was wonderful for everyone to once again sleep in their own beds
inside their own bedrooms! It was also exhausting putting
everything back where it belonged. Of course there are still
some boxes to unpack -- I just ran out of steam.
We had decided to get rid of the
ugly old tile in the entryway and replace it with more hardwood,
framed by a simple walnut border. Unfortunately, there is a
staircase at the bottom of the entry -- and it turns out, it was
sitting on top of the tile -- it was not built into the subfloor
as the floor guys had assumed. Suddenly I had to scramble and
find a contractor to demolish the tile while shoring up the
staircase. Our floor guys didn't want to touch it because they
were afraid of doing damage the staircase.
Well the heavens were with me on
this one. A quick look in the phone book revealed a contractor
who lived right around the corner -- with the same last name as
one of my daughter's schoolmates (indeed he was in her class).
Lucky, lucky, lucky that his company could spare a day to come
out and do this work for us! Otherwise, the whole second part of
the project would have gotten delayed at least a month (because
of course the floor guys have other jobs booked after mine).
So on Friday the 27th, my
entryway was filled with rocks and dust as they sledgehammered
the tile to oblivion while ensuring that the staircase remained
intact. It was very very loud. And very very dusty. And I am so
very very glad that it's over!
Two days later, on Monday, the
floor guys came back to put in the new hardwood floor for the
entry, and tear up the carpet and refinish the living/dining
room. They said that the contractor guys did an excellent job
getting the entryway floor ready for them. Again, we had no idea
what the wood underneath the living/dining room carpet would
look like (other than something about "wide plank.") Well wow,
it is lovely! The wood alternates between wider planks and
narrower ones and looks really nice. Apparently it is quite
expensive to get a new floor that looks like this, so I consider
us very lucky to have made this discovery! Once again a few
pieces of wood needed replacing, but it wasn't too expensive.
Of course I had some insecurity
pangs during this process, especially when they were tearing out
the tile. You know, that moment of "Oh God, what have I done?"
But when the floor guys put in the new floor with that nice
walnut border, I realized that I made the right choice. I think
it's going to look really great when it's done.
Hopefully the whole thing will be
done by next Monday (Feb. 6th). Then it is onto the next phase
of this huge project: re-painting several rooms, and picking out
furniture and drapes. I have another consultation with the
interior designer on the 17th. Thank God. Because really I don't
have a clue about what color to paint things or what sort of
furniture to choose. Drapes particularly elude me. I have a
general idea of how I want the finished room to look and feel.
Getting there is the hard part. In that respect, I'm sure the
designer will be worth every penny!
I am happy to welcome a few
new advertisers to ArchWired.com.
Oral Breeze makes a Waterpik-type
device that you can hook up directly to your sink or your shower
(QuickPik and ShowerPik). Several readers on
our Metal Mouth Message Board have sung its praises.
Welcome also to the makers of
Damon Brackets and
Inspire Ice Brackets, who are new
advertisers. If you are not familiar with the Damon system and
its advantages, or the "ice clear" braces, you may want to visit their websites for
iBraces company, which
makes custom lingual brackets, will also continue to advertise
on our site. As you may
notice, none of the ads flash and they are not animated. That is
because I do not want ArchWired to turn into one of those sites
where everything on the page annoyingly flashes at you.
These banner and tile ads change upon page refresh, so every time you
refresh the main page, you will see different ads.
I also want to point out that
ArchWired's content is not swayed by its advertisers. Much like
a newspaper, there is a distinct line between advertising and
editorial content. Our advertisers must meet a set of strict
requirements to ensure that you are only exposed to high-quality
products and services that will be helpful to you.
The advertising revenue we receive
from these advertisers helps to defray hosting/maintenance
costs, and will also help me to provide more informational
content to you in the future.
In addition, I'm very excited to
help introduce a new type of dental floss for braces called
SturdyFloss. This product was created by a dental hygienist from
Virginia. It has a rigid but bendable threader tip. This makes it
easy to shape and maneuver exactly to your requirements. A box
of 100 strands is reasonably priced at $13.99. For a limited
time, you can email me for a free sample! This is one of many
new products that I am happy to help introduce to you guys. I am
always on the lookout for new and innovative products to help
make "life in braces" easier. If you ever come across a great
new product, drop me a line and let me know.
On the home front.....We haven't made much progress in
our house, which is very frustrating. But at least I have
managed to get rid of almost all the old furniture we didn't
want (most given to charities or posted on Craig's List). But
alas, I still can't pull my van into the garage because now, in
addition to one piece of furniture that still needs to go, there
are a lot of boxes. I'm hoping that when that one piece of
furniture is gone, we can re-arrange the boxes so that I can fit
my car back into the garage!
The decorator spent quite a bit of
time with me a few weeks ago. She is coming back on Friday with
sketches of furniture and recommended placement in the two rooms
which are now virtually empty. (The "TV room" where the kids
hang out only has a TV set/video equipment/oak display stand and
an Aero-bed with loads of pillows, so they can sit down
and hang out on something -- and lots and lots of boxes shoved
into one corner. And the Living/Dining Room has NOTHING in it
except for the kids' computer and a couple of folding chairs --
it's like a ballroom in there!)
She told me that in the
Living/Dining room, we want to start with the living room rug.
She said that the rug ties everything together and should be the
first piece we pick out. I want something modern, which rules
out 95% of the rugs that are sold in stores. I'm just not into
that "oriental rug" look. Well, I looked at contemporary rugs
online until I was cross-eyed and came up with about 20 that I
liked. Then I went to a couple of local stores to see some rugs
in person. That is challenging, because most rug stores only
carry traditional oriental-type rugs. Anyway, as I found out,
you can just never tell about something until you see it in
person. One rug, which I totally passed over online, is a major
contender. Online the colors in that rug didn't really translate
well, but in person it was a whole other story. It may not be
large enough, so I have to consult with the decorator before I
buy it. But at least it is all wool. I would go with acrylic if
I had to, but of course wool is usually a better choice.
I made a painful realization the
other day. I can't use my regular old upright Hoover vacuum
cleaner on these hardwood floors. It will scratch them if used
regularly! We bought our vacuum (one of the upright Windtunnel
models) about a year ago when the old one died. At the time we
never imagined that we'd take the carpets totally out. So now
I'm researching Canister-type vacuum cleaners. Because, as I've
discovered, dry-mopping a house full of hardwood is not fun or
efficient. I'm torn between a few models by Electrolux, Bosch,
and Kenmore. I like to do thorough research on appliances and
unfortunately none of these cleaners gets really high grades in
every area. The Bosch and Miele are great of course, but in most
cases the price tag is way too high. I just refuse to spend $400
or more on a vacuum cleaner! I mean, sheesh, it's a VACUUM
CLEANER fercrissake! My only requirement is that it have some
decent allergy filtration in the exhaust, (not necessarily total
HEPA). I'm hoping I can find a good workable machine for
about $250-$300. My husband rolls his eyes at this "unexpected
expense." But hey, what can I do? Hopefully this new appliance
will last a long time. And we can still use the old upright
Hoover for the upstairs, which is still carpeted.
OK, enough about the house. I've
also been "working on myself" during the past few months. I made
a new year's resolution to try to lose 10 lbs or more. I'm not
far from my ideal weight, but being so sedentary last year
really caused the pounds to creep up to an uncomfortable level
(as in: my reliable old jeans were too tight to be comfortable,
uh oh....). So I've been eating very sensibly and exercising
about 4-5 days per week (alternating between aerobic and weight
training). So far, I've lost almost 5 lbs. It's really nice to
be able to do the weight training again and feel strong and
muscular (something I have really missed). It will also help
keep my back strong in the long run.
I'm also growing my hair, which
(if you've ever done this, ladies) you know can be really
annoying. Right now it is in that "ugly in between phase" when
it doesn't look very good no matter what I do. I plan to go to a
special salon in a few month and have them re-do my hairstyle.
I'm growing it all out to give myself as many options as
possible. This is something I've been wanting to do for a long
time, but have always chickened out when the hair got too out of
shape and annoying. But this time, I am armed with hair clips
and barrettes, and even one of those fake hair clip-on things.
I'm waiting for the ultimate irony: if my new hairstyle winds up
looking just like my old one!
My life is like a series of TV
shows: "This Old House" and "This Old Girl." LOL.
Did you watch the Olympics? My
daughter has a crush on Apollo Ohno, so we just HAD to watch all
his races. He's a cutie, so I'll say that my daughter has good
taste in men so far ;-) Those races were pretty exciting.
I felt sorry for Sasha Cohen, missing out on the gold medal for
skating again. Maybe next time....
Oh yeah, one more thing. My reflux
problem seems to be gone. Thank God! I was on the Aciphex for a
little more than 6 weeks. I began to read about how it isn't
good to stay on those PPI meds for the long term and decided to
try getting off of it. Well it wasn't easy. I had major stomach
pains and nausea for about a week, even just weaning myself off
of it slowly. When I was totally off of it, I switched to just
taking a generic Zantac 75 whenever I was going to have acidic
food. That worked like a charm. Then after a few more weeks, I
sometimes didn't take the Zantac, and about half the time I was
OK. Most of my symptoms have disappeared. This leads me to
believe that most of the damage was done by the asthma inhalers
I used when I was sick. Maybe now it is all healed and back to
So now, I just take the Zantac
or pop a few Tums/Rolaids/Gaviscon when needed. I think I'll be
OK. Hopefully my doctors will agree. I'm dreading going back to
them, because I'd rather not take those PPI drugs if I don't
really need to. I saw a gastro doc and I may have an endoscopic
procedure done to see if I have a hiatal hernia or anything like
that (caused by violent coughing when I was sick). Let's cross
our fingers and hope that everything is staus-quo. I'd rather
stay out of doctor's offices and off major meds for the time being and just
concentrate on happier things.