I wonder that too, dubnobass. I am not in any way belittling the people on this thread who really truly believe that the state of their teeth has adversely affected their lives, because if they believe that their teeth have held them back, chances are that they HAVE been held back. The mistake I consider they are making is that they are purely blaming their teeth for all their problems, whereas (I believe) it is in fact how they feel about their teeth that are causing their problems.What will you do if , when you have the perfect teeth you so badly crave, you still don't get the guy or the job? What then?
I'm 42 years old and have hated my teeth all my life, but I never felt they held me back. I'm getting them done now because I can afford to, and it means I'll hopefully get to keep them longer because I'll be able to clean them properly. Plus I'll have a nice smile. BUT having crooked teeth never stopped me smiling before. My teeth aren't the only "imperfection" I have. I'm a bit overweight, I'm starting to go grey and I don't have a very good complexion - even at 42 I still get breakouts. Maybe people look at me and notice those things, but how far should I go to make sure I am aesthetically pleasing for others to look at? Or when do I just think "if they don't like the way I look, tough sh*t" My husband and my friends and family think I look just fine.
Like dubnobass, I could've got my teeth fixed for free in the UK, because they are THAT bad. I was given the opportunity to get them fixed for free 20 years ago and guess what? I refused, because I was enjoying my life and felt that orthodontics would interfere with that.
Aren't you being treated with Invisalign Jenni? The vast majority of people on this forum are not candidates for Invisalign - and why? Because their problems are not "minor" enough. There are people here who will need braces for 3 or 4 years AND surgery, because their problems are so severe. The only thing braces are going to change are my teeth. They're not going to change my life. I'm not complacent enough to believe I can just sit back for 2 years or so, let somebody straighten my teeth for me, and my life will miraculously improve as a by-product of that. If I want to change my life, I have to do that myself.If you feel that getting your teeth fixed isnt a completely life changing experience, then honestly, you probably only have very minor problems that nobody can notice anyway.
I really do hope that Jennicakes, Jackie and others who feel the same way about being held back in life by poor occlusion of their teeth are proved right. I really do wish that for you. But it might be worth spending a little time considering the alternative, and thereby being prepared if it should happen.