horrible pain from the adjustments and how the braces cut your mouth and that dental wax doesn't do much cause it keeps falling off and you end up swallowing alot of it.
I've never had more than mild discomfort following an adjustment, which is easily controlled with an OTC painkiller like ibuprofen. There are people on this board who have never needed any pain meds following adjustments.
The braces can irritate the inside of your mouth to begin with, but keeping hydrated by drinking plenty of water, using warm salt-water rinses to toughen your mouth, and application of wax to cushion sore spots will help with that.
If you put the wax on properly it doesn't come off, and even if you swollow it, it doesn't hurt you!
I'm sorry your friend had a bad braces experience but it doesn't have to be like that. A positive attitude will go a long way towards making your braces experience a much more pleasant one. Don't let one person's bad experience put you off. With the exception of a week or so's "blip" following a problem with one of my mini-implant screws being rejected, I've never doubted for a minute that getting braces was the right choice.
Look at Friday as the beginning of a positive thing that you are doing for YOU
Lisa x