Clearly, you haven't read my posts.
I went through this for awhile....till I decided to grow some...um....lovely "bulbs"

(you be the interpreter of that one) and finally tell the receptionist....I no longer....wished to have...what I called "Nurse Hatchet". And let me tell you...it was by far, the smartest thing I have yet to do, in regards to ortho visits.
Where I go, there are about 5 or 6 tech's, assistants, whatever their called. So, each time...I could quite possibly, get someone different. For a while that is, till you've gone through all of them. Well, in the beginning I had a couple different one's that were really good. And um, what's the word I'm looking for here.....been there awhile, veterans. So they were really good and knew just what to do, to make it much more comfortable for you, me, us...the poor saps sitting in the chair.
Well then I started getting "Nurse Hatchet" and holy mother of GOD, she was terrible. TERRIABLE. I'm not exaggerating here. TERRIABLE. But, I thought..."be tough", "stick it out", "little kids have her", until....the day she about killed me. Now, this was after having her like 4 or 5 times...IN A ROW. I got to be where I was dreading even going. So right before my appointment, my husband was like "why the heck are you putting up with this?" "You wouldn't from any other professional?" He was right. So I had decided that if I got her, and it was bad....I was going to say something. I was a bit worried about making her feel bad, but....BUT...by the time I said something that day, she had just about killed me with pain. I had sweat dripping down my forehead, my back, between my boobatrons, and...um...other places. That, is how much pain she caused me. I couldn't take it any longer. I said something to her, AND.... the receptionist, when I was finished. No longer, NO FLIPPIN LONGER was I to ever, EVER have her again. And, I haven't, and.....I have not had one. Not one single appointment that has caused me the pain, like she did. Either their good.....or their not. And the one's that are good.....PRAISE THEM, because it...makes....a difference as to how YOUR experience during that visit, will go.
Say something right away. RIGHT AWAY. I've had some really tough things done to me, in the sense that the ortho has TOLD me, this is going to hurt, or be painful, or be tough. And not one single time since I said something has it been bad. WHY? Because these other girls know how, and where to put the pressure. How, and when to be more gentle. And, gee...I don't know, cause their F-ING smarter than that d-u-m-b-a-s-s I had.....
All I'm saying is, don't wait to say something. Heck, you can even request a certain person if you feel really comfortable with them. They totally understand. Plus...your paying an a-s-s-l-o-a-d of money. You should get top notch treatment. PERIOD.