Advice desperately needed. Please help.

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shinyam
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Advice desperately needed. Please help.

#1 Post by shinyam »

Lynn, I know this post is not related to braces in any way, but I hope you don't mind me posting it here, as I am in a very desperate situation, and need to seek the advice from this community on what could be a life-changing decision. It's a very personal problem, but here goes:

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. The usual signs: phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out with "the girls" a lot recently, although when I ask which girls, it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them."

I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive, although I can hear a car setting off. It's as if she has gotten out of the car around the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was, and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again, and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth. But last night she went out again, and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street, so I could see which car she gets out of. It was while crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
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drazda
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#2 Post by drazda »

I'm sorry this is happening to you. It definitely sounds like she is cheating. If I were you, I would confront her. And when you hid behind your car, did you get the see the car she came out of?
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joleigh
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#3 Post by joleigh »

Well that sounds like a very personal problem. That happened to me once, and I just went to the auto supply and repaired it myself :wink:

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#4 Post by Gel »

Okay, are you serious? :lol: The only thing to do when it comes down to your baby is to take it to the only people that you trust. Unless you only trust yourself, then try cleaning it out. What kind of car is it?
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#5 Post by johnnys_angel »

I'm sorry about your girlfriend, but your story made me laugh out loud! :D As to your baby, I would take it to the best people you know, or just do it yourself. Good luck!
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#6 Post by tkais »

LOL
You had me going!
Have a professional work on your car. It will get done and get done right.
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#7 Post by Brooke »

I am soooo confused! Are you saying you know she's cheating and don't care or ?

I can't even answer, haha! :lol:
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#8 Post by dkt3 »

Its a joke...

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#9 Post by TheSilverSmileChileno »

damn you made me read all the whole psoting and i have too much work to doooo ahahahaaha
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#10 Post by amychelle »

I'd get your girlfriend's boyfriend to fix it.
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