Double Jaw Surgery Regret-Reversal?
Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2017 3:30 pm
I had double jaw surgery in June of 2016. I hate how my face changed, but I don't know if there is anything that can be done about it. I didn't have a very bad bite before surgery; I had a crossbite and my teeth were edge to edge. However, the surgeon made a lot of changes to my jaw. He widened my upper jaw by a full cm, moved it forward 3 mm, rotated both jaws to the left and rotated my upper jaw down. Initially, he told me that my bite could be fixed with only upper jaw surgery, but then changed to double jaw quite close to when I was actually supposed to have the surgery. I feel like he moved my jaws more than necessary because he wanted to change my facial features in a specific way and I hate how they have changed. Before the surgery I had brought up a concern about my nose getting wider and expressed that I wanted to avoid this from happening. He told me that he wouldn't widen it. When I got out of surgery and while I was still wired shut, he told me that he widened it 4mm at the base. It looks huge in comparison to my other features and now has a crater in the center from being widened. He also pointed up the tip of my nose a lot, despite me genetically having a turned down tip. If I had wanted my nose shape to change as much as it did, then I would have gotten a rhinoplasty and I feel like I have been blindsided by this as well as him rotating my upper jaw down. He never discussed that this would be done and it has caused my already small upper lip to recede even further. I have found that my upper lip has lengthened and I have no upper teeth show at rest, and only some when I smile normally. If I really force myself to smile a lot then I can get my front teeth to fully show, but then my nostrils raise up a lot. When I smile from the front, my teeth don't look that strange, but when looking at my profile, it looks like all of the teeth on my upper jaw are pointing backwards instead of straight down. My eye shape has also changed because of this surgery. I'm not sure if it's because of swelling that is still present or because he widened my jaw, but my eyes look smaller and practically disappear when I smile now.
I tried to talk to the initial surgeon about how unhappy I was, but as soon as I brought up my first complaint (that I didn't like my nose being upturned), he brushed me off and said that I would age better now. He seemed to be getting annoyed just by that one complaint, so I was too scared to bring anything else up. I have never had confidence issues like I do now and have never been more depressed. I am actively working on my mental health, but I want to explore all of my options if there is even a small possibility of remedying this. At this point in time, I would absolutely deal with the risks of getting jaw surgery again to get my face looking like what it did before, even just slightly. I went to see a separate surgeon and he told me that since my bite was fixed he would not recommend a second surgery. He said that there is no surgery out there that could reverse what the first surgery did, which doesn't seem right to me. If something is changed in surgery, can it not be undone? He recommended that I look into a rhinoplasty or other cosmetic surgery, but I don't believe that the things that I dislike about my results would be remedied without a second jaw surgery to reverse the first one as much as possible. Has anyone gone through this and had good results? Or is it even possible to reversed this type of surgery? Thanks.
I tried to talk to the initial surgeon about how unhappy I was, but as soon as I brought up my first complaint (that I didn't like my nose being upturned), he brushed me off and said that I would age better now. He seemed to be getting annoyed just by that one complaint, so I was too scared to bring anything else up. I have never had confidence issues like I do now and have never been more depressed. I am actively working on my mental health, but I want to explore all of my options if there is even a small possibility of remedying this. At this point in time, I would absolutely deal with the risks of getting jaw surgery again to get my face looking like what it did before, even just slightly. I went to see a separate surgeon and he told me that since my bite was fixed he would not recommend a second surgery. He said that there is no surgery out there that could reverse what the first surgery did, which doesn't seem right to me. If something is changed in surgery, can it not be undone? He recommended that I look into a rhinoplasty or other cosmetic surgery, but I don't believe that the things that I dislike about my results would be remedied without a second jaw surgery to reverse the first one as much as possible. Has anyone gone through this and had good results? Or is it even possible to reversed this type of surgery? Thanks.