
A little history on me: I'm 27, married with a baby boy. When I was a kid, I had a retainer to push my top molars out, but they've since curved back in. I still have my wisdom teeth, which is apparently uncommon.
I just had a consultation with an orthodontist after some pretty unbearable toothaches. He wants to do two years of braces (I'm sure they tell everyone it's "only" two years), and possibly oral surgery to de-fuse my upper palette, since it's apparently too narrow.
I'm not entirely sure I want to go through with this, so I'm here for a little affirmation. My teeth don't look too bad, so I have no cosmetic incentive for getting braces. I just don't want to have another toothache like I had a few weeks ago. I'm trying to decide if living with periodic toothaches is more acceptable than having to shell out $5k+ and endure braces for a couple years.
The braces would be mainly to correct crossbite on both sides, though it's notably worse on one side (the one that always gets the toothaches). The oral surgery creeps the hell out of me.
So that's that. Any thoughts? Is this ultimately worth going through?