By the way, I disagree with your "equilibrium state" assertion. If this existed, then it would not be true that everyone's teeth have a tendency to move as we grow older.
Muscles change as we get older, tissue growth never stops, these factors change the forces on our teeth, thus the teeth constantly keep shifting to a place where they are in a state of force equilibrium and they balance out. Braces and retainers stop these natural forces from having an effect (or at least as great of one).
The moment you stop the braces or retainers the natural forces are allowed to take over until things balance out.
Muscles always change and they do get to where the natural position of the teeth (their state of force equilibrium) is closer to where the retainers are holding them. But never perfect.
So yeah, orthodontics is just the application of controled forces to overcome natural forces. When it's made emotional is when things get blown out of proportion. That's one thing I like about the ortho I'm going to, he'll just talk straight up about what he's doing and why he uses what he does - no hiding it with words like memory or anything. At the inital consult we talked for a good 10 minutes about the difference in coefficient of friction between bracket types (Damon vs traditional). This willingness to talk about the science, not the emotion is what led me to trust his choices...
I GET MY BRACES TMW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!