Well, the doctor said that yes, I was a candidate for invisalign, but that the reults I could get from that were very limited and he didn't think it would be worth my time or money. He was WAY more interested in my jaw than my teeth. He asked if I had jaw pain and/or popping, and upon thinking about it I realized, "wholy cow...I DO have pain and popping....and mabe that's NOT normal." I'd never paid much attention to those things and didnt' know that it was a problem, much less that it could be fixed.
Sooo, after a ton of looking and measuring, and looking and rooting around in my mouth, the doctor decided I needed braces, SURGERY (apparently my upper jaw is too narrow, I have a crossbite, and an overbite), and in the meantime, he wanted me to wear a splint to relax my jaw muscles. Ok....I was dead set against the braces, but agreed to go back to get fitted for a splint, which I wore for a year.
During the year with the splint I noticed my crooked teeth and the discomfort in jaw more than ever and FINALLY decided okay, mabe braces wouldn't be the end of the world. On February 28th I took the plunge and got a full mouth of metal braces. After the first few days I decided it's not worth it and had a little melt down where I told my husband how disgusting and ugly I felt and that I was going to abort the whole straight teeth/jaw mission. He put up with my whining that night and the next day I found this website. Since then I feel MUCH better about myself and realize that it is DEFINATELY worth it to have a beautiful smile and a jaw that functions properly.
So, that's the beginning of my story. I am going to the oral surgeon on April 2 to find out more details of what he wants to do to me. Until then, I'll live with my braces and keep dreaming of what my mouth will look like when this is all over with. I haven't noticed any movement yet, but everyday I'm like a little kid on Christmas morning running to the mirror to check it out. One of these days I'm hoping to finally get my present and see a change!
I'll keep you posted on the progress I make and post pictures when somethin finally happens! Thanks SO much to everyone who has posted their stories. You've all helped me more than I can say in gaining my confidence back.

I'm in the process of learning how to post some some pics and will get them up ASAP.