I just wanted to share my story!

I got braces for the first time at 28 years old. I am about 3 months in currently, and I am expected to have them for 24 months.
Growing up my teeth were perfect. Fast forward to adulthood... I began clenching and grinding my teeth at night. My teeth began shifting. It wasn't terrible looking, but one of my front teeth was going behind another. It bothered me. It was recommended by my dentist that I get a night guard. I decided I wanted to fix the teeth before getting a guard made (considering the price). I resorted to a Walmart night guard in the meantime. I met with many orthodontists (maybe 8 or so), but when the time came to take action, I decided I wasn't ready for braces. I wanted to wait a bit more.
4 years later, and after 4 years of using a cheap guard, I made the decision to finally get braces. I went back to one of the original orthodontists I saw 4 years earlier. They pulled up the photos of my teeth and the changes were shocking. It didn't seem like they moved much to me, but looking at the photos was an eye opener. I am not big on the terminology, but basically I had an big increase over jet (which was not an issue previously), and none of my molars were meshing properly. One side of my mouth was not contacting at all. He suggested orthodontics ASAP to correct everything that has happened (the cheap night guard played a large role in these changes). He gave me 2 options: regular braces but pull 4 teeth because I have a small mouth, or Invisalign and keep all my teeth. I decided to get a second opinion because I didn't like either option. I wasn't keen on Invisalign or pulling teeth. The second orthodontist recommend regular braces. He didn't think extractions were necessary, and he said he wouldn't recommend Invisalign because I need to correct the bite 100% which he felt would be done better with braces. He did warn me though that wearing elastics would be critical for my progress (I haven't had any yet eek).
A week and a half later I got the braces on! I went with regular metal braces as I was paying for it outright. I got bottom and top braces at the same time. My very back molars were not engaged at that first appointment. I have since went for 1 adjustment and at that time they changed the top wire to thicker wire and engaged the back upper molars. My bottom wire was left as is and back molars still not engaged. I also got a few steel ties which I think was by far the most painful thing I've ever experienced in my mouth. It's been about 3 months now and I am still adjusting to it all. I'm a touch paranoid, so I seem to worry a lot about them. I looked forward to when the braces are off, but I have a long journey ahead still!
Thanks for reading! I really enjoy this message board and I have found it very helpful.