Hi Again-
Spoke to my husband yesterday about paying out of pocket for the surgery if it is denied after appeal under the impression that it would be about 30k total....then spoke to the OS assistant today who basically laughed (said hospital fees alone would reach 75k plus 13k for the surgeon and I would have to have every penny in advance)- guess that won't be an option. I know the OS is itching to do the surgery as every dentist, orthodontist, and oral surgeon have basically put me on parade as a freak of nature due to my ability to posture my jaw almost an inch forward at all times(imagine clenching your jaw in a certain position every second of every day for years and years....painful, but I can't function unless I do). Apparently, no one has ever seen anything like it (man I'm sick of hearing that). So far no private practice OS will touch my case, and I am now seeing a physician at the University of Pittsburgh (I went to Ohio State too, but I like my Dr. at Pittsburgh a little better).
Since my out-of-pocket plan has been shot down, I now plan on applying for appeal by presenting letters of medical necessity from my PCP, dentist, orthodontist and some random person off the street if I have to. In the back of my mind I am thinking that I am lucky to have a husband that will be an anesthesiology resident at the University of Michigan next June....that has a dental school....who's oral surgery department accepts UofM insurance for orthognathic surgery under certain circumstances. The only hold up.....another year of pain, another year with braces!
Will keep you updated, Rebecca

PS- whoever started this web site is amazing...it feels better to just get this off my chest, thanks for all of your kind words/advice