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lisette wrote:This will probably get me banned but someone has to say it so —
It’s definitely you, shanalouis. You spend a tremendous amount of time posting vague, often absurd questions and seeking validation. Perhaps you would do better to see a therapist to figure out what your issues are rather than trying to work them out on a message board. Really. Being around you for any length of time must be annoying as hell.
hduggan wrote:I'd also add than Shanalouis has had an unusually hard and long recovery (8 months and two surgeries!), and so has had a long time to sit around and think about how the surgeries are turning out. I'd have done *much* more complaining and worrying if I'd been through as much as she has.
I've also noticed that people who were very good looking before the surgery are more aware of the effects on their looks. We had someone else recently who posted alot worrying that she looked worse. I just think it's a bigger issue if you were pretty happy with the way you looked beforehand.