Hey DM,
Yes I have talked with both, in fact I called my oral surgeon today to discuss it with him. I talked with his nurse, but she has been with him for 20 years and assists in all his surgerys. She said the they have done a few fairly recently with the chain, and it doesn't affect the actual expansion.
They are going to put my braces on top on on the 23rd of Feb. She said that when the doctor gets in there if it doesn't look ok to chain things together, then he will just cut my archwire.
I decided today, after reading everyones stories, and listening to Dr. J's reply that I'm not even going to worry about it. I'm going to tell my Ortho that I'm fine with having the gap (I really just don't care about it anymore) It is such an inconsequencial amount of time in the big scheme of things, and quite frankly.....this is my journey so I really don't care a whole heck of a lot what others think. I'm looking forward to the whole process, and while I know it will be unpleasant at times I know it will be worth it in the end. In fact I pushed my surgery date up a week today so I could get with the program even sooner.
I didn't realize that they would be cutting inside my palate too, but oh well just more to love huh? Did I mention that they are extracting a lower molar, and an upper wisdom tooth at the same time they do my SARPE?...probably not, as I think I'm in denial about that. My brain can only handle so much so I figure I will just focus on the big stuff and the rest will be cake! (uh..yea, maybe if I keep telling myself that enough, I will start to believe it)

I compare everything to giving birth to my son. I mean how much worse than childbirth can it be? I'm sure not even close, so I'm all good with it.
Your story has been very inspirational, and I have to say that your teeth look amazing! It is truly mind blowing what they can do with orthodontics and surgery these days. WOW! you must be so totally thrilled with the results huh? I know I would be!