redwine wrote:Surgery began at 7:30am on the 18th and I was in recovery around noon. There was unexpected bleeding so I had to stay overnight. Meds make me hyper, so no sleep, either. The worst part? No ice!!! I couldn't believe I wasn't packed in ice when I finally came 'round! I had some ice packs in the car so had DH retrieve them and did the best I could. Never got a room,so spent most of the night in the recovery area, next to Chatty Cathy who just wouldn't shut-up. At about 2am, I finally got moved to another holding area that was much quieter and had a TV to make the time go by quicker. At about 4am, I finally got some ambien and was able to take a nap until about 7. Whew, that made me feel much better. Finally got home a little before noon. I packed myself in ice, took my meds as prescribed and had a long, lovely nap. Woke up at 4, starving, had some soup, and made the mistake of looking in the mirror. From just below my eyes on down, I am horribly swollen and my skin varies in shades of deep of blue, purple and green! At the hospital I had asked the resident why no ice, and he said he had ordered it. DH is wonderful, but had a stroke and is not a great patient advocate. Next time, I will take someone with me who will make sure things happen the way they are supposed to! I thought I could take care of myself, but I guess the drugs made more stupid than I expected. Right now I am very angry at myself...
Don't beat yourself up. We all try to use good reasoning when making decisions. Sometimes in hindsight, we realize we should have taken other factors into consideration, but I'm sure you made the best decisions you could given what you were told about the surgery.
I hope you'll be over the worst swelling/bruising in a few days to a week.
And I want to say 'thank you' for sharing your experience here! It's making me consider asking my mom to come visit while I'm having my surgery, b/c she's a great patient advocate. My DH is wonderful. Very smart, very attentive, but I have no idea how he is in a hospital... we've just never had to go through something like this together. My mom's also very smart, and is the kind of person who will get her way come h#ll or high water... and I think that's the kind of person with me in the hospital.
Anyway, thank you for sharing, and I hope you heal quickly!