I am a 38 year old mother of 3 boys. Happily married, and relatively productive member of society

When I was pregnant with my oldest son (20 years ago), I had to have an emergency root canal done. Not a pleasant experience at the best of times, but certainly not fun when you are 8 months pregnant either. Then over the next 4 years I had two more children and had teeth problems with each of those pregnancies too. Unfortunately I didn't have the funds to have root canals each of those times, and opted to have the problem teeth extracted instead. Flash forward 16 years and I have two upper molars missing (one on each side), and the wherewithal to finally do something about it.
What really prompted me to start this whole thing is two-fold really. My oldest son is in the military, and shortly after his graduation from high school I had every intention of taking him in to have his wisdom teeth pulled before his enlistment date. The government had other ideas and moved up his enlistment date several months, and we just ran out of time. Now the military is removing his wisdom teeth for him... slowing... one ... at... a .... time ....

Prior to my wisdom extractions, I had a consult with the ortho that my youngest son saw a couple of years ago. I loved their office and my son’s results are amazing. I really wanted to explore all of my options when it came to closing the gaps left from my extractions so many years ago. I didn’t want to get implants (the horror stories scared me to death, and I was already not a fan of dentists in general). I also wasn’t thrilled with the idea of getting 2 bridges, and having to sacrifice 4 more teeth in the process. The ortho assured me that braces could pull everything together without needing bridges – YAY! So, off I went to the oral surgeon for wisdom removal (in more ways than one I am afraid), then a consult with a periodontist just to make sure nothing was amiss before starting orthodontics. So – as of 4/25, I am the proud owner of a whole bunch of metal in my mouth.
My sentence is 20 months, but I am hoping that it is closer to 18 so I can have these babies off in time for my 40th birthday. I know I am only 1 week in, but so far the worst has been getting my cheeks / gums used to the braces. I feel like I am constantly prying them off the inside of my lip / cheeks…. not pleasant. I go into the ortho this week for spacers and then next for a bracket on my crown. Hoping that all goes well – if nothing else, there is always ibuprofen and wine.
I will try to post pics soon too, but in the meantime I am just happy to have more "ok - this was a good decision" moments than "OMG - WHAT HAVE I DONE" moments
