Hi sauerkraut,
thank you for your answer and this metaphor. That´s great. You really made me smile.
That really is a huge amount of money. You think it is worth that? I mean, does ist really make such a big difference as it should to justify this price?
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Today was my talking-appointment with the ortho. It seems as if he was choosing the best way. That makes me feel quite good with him.
Could it have been different, I missed to ask my questions because I was just to slow with understanding everything, just overchallenged. LOL I´ll have to do this if it comes to any next appointement I think.
He still suggested to extract two upper premolars. (Expanders do not seem to exist in these fields.) It would be possible to make the jaw bigger just with braces and perhaps a thing I do not know the english word for. Palatal arch, maybe. Some wire between two upper molars.
At last he got to know that all of my wisdom teeth are already gone and he seemed quite shocked. So was I. The upper ones will be missing now! There will be too much space in the back and he said my jaws might start to crack someday later, because it´s too hard for them. It would be the same as now, this danger can´t be banned. That does not sound so good, I think.
I asked if it was possible to move the other teeth backwards into the free space so that all of them might stay. No... would not be as good. He explained why using this modell but I couldn´t really see what he was talking about, because I just don´t know some of these moving-things. I think it was because of the bite.
And I felt quite eased because it was only about two ones.
I´ll think it over now, but don´t know how helpful it would be to ask another one, because all of these people seem to be really fast with extractions.
The other one talked about four ones at once and I remember one another when I was a child, wanting to pull eight ones.
I think he would have to explain once again why they can´t be moved backwards, before anything gets extracted. *bestupid*
Now I go on being annoyed about myself for getting all wisdom teeth removed.

Obviously I talked to the wrong people. I have been looking for a way to keep them for two and a half years, because I was really worried about that. I talked to three dentists and two surgeons during that time and not even one of them told me that there might be any way to keep them. I do not really wonder about this, but it seems as if you have to catch up on studying medicine before believing anyone these days.
Thanks for listening to my thinking.
greetz,
Brahma