Now I'm almost 3 months post-op (double jaw with a total of 10mm movement + genio, for correcting underbite), and I want to share some of my thoughts, which became more solid today after some incident.
I can say that starting from day one post-op, I liked how my profile looked, much more than pre-op. The problem was when not in profile, I was so swollen I looked like I had a face transplant. It was awkward to go out, I felt nervous.
About a month after surgery, most of the swelling went down, and I started to see the point of some people in this thread, who said that this surgery doesn't make one look more beautiful, rather just normal. Actually, I thought that not in profile I looked worse. A "nice" female co-worker of mine even said to me that surgery didn't make me more handsome, saying something about how each of us is born with a certain looks and we can't do much to change it. As much as I hated her comment, I had to agree that she's right about me not looking better... (when not in profile, at least).
Then, about two-three weeks ago (about 2 months post op), things started to change. Looking at the mirror I started to like what I saw, moreover, I've started to notice a somewhat different behavior of women toward me, more staring, more talkative... interesting I thought.
Regarding whether this surgery made me look more beautiful in the eyes of others, up until today I couldn't quite be sure, ok, so I seem to be getting more attention from women lately, but still, people who directly commented good things about my appearance post-op, can not be trusted, either it's my girlfriend, or family, or friends, or close co-workers, they all knew I am getting this surgery, so any comment they make I take with a grain of salt (apart from the cruel comment that female co-worker gave me 1 month post-op, this I take as a honest comment).
Today was an interesting incident, I went to see some co-workers whom I haven't seen since the day before surgery, and who did not know about my surgery. The moment I saw them, some lady there (who is notorious for saying whatever is on her mind without hesitations) immediately told me "wow you look wonderful, have you done something ?, or is being away from us for so long what made you look so good ?", I laughed and said "yes I think you're right, it must have been being away from you..." (since I felt awkward telling everybody there about the surgery), but she insisted, "no really, you must have done something, did you gain weight, lose weight, changed your hairstlye ?, your face look more beautiful you must have done something". I just couldn't believe she used that word, "beautiful", and sounded so confident. Then I told them about surgery. Then she kept saying how she's usually the last person to spot an aesthetic change, but in my case it's so obvious... other people there commented it looks amazing...
Ah, there's nothing like the fruits of hard labor...
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