Today I had an appointment with my ortho to just do a check on the expander. When I walked in and sat down, the assistant didn't seem to know what I was there for. She actually went up to the other assistants and was like, "I don't know what she's here for right now. It's already tied up." Then the other assistants were like, "Oh she must just be here for a check up, because it's too soon to take the expander off."
So then my ortho came over and looked at my mouth. After he was done, he said, "I'll see you in 6-8 weeks to get this out. Probably 8 weeks to be safe." I walked over to the front desk and another assistant (the first girl I had when I started this whole journey) said, "Did you get it out yet?"
"No. I have 8 weeks left." I said.
"8 weeks! Ugh. You poor thing. That's so long."
She then said, "After you get the expander out, we'll wait a week, then place the spacers in, wait another week, and then get your braces on." "Oh, but I have to get my wisdom teeth out before I start braces," I said. "Oh.... well... then let me just schedule this one appointment then. We haven't made an appointment for that yet, so in two weeks you'll have to call." I'm pretty sure she's meant call the oral surgeon. But I don't see the point in calling until i'm sure that this expander is out for good. I'd hate to schedule a consultation appointment date and then the expander's not out yet.
Anyway, she then scheduled me an appointment to get the expander off, but she gave me the date March 31st. Which I realized after I left is only 7 weeks from today. Now I'm not sure if I should call and change the appointment.

I asked my mom what she thinks and she said, "don't call, it's their fault. Now you'll be done sooner." But I don't want to go there and then my ortho says, "you still have a week to go." That's just a complete waste of my time and theirs.
The other problem is that when my ortho looked at my teeth said that there are a few spots on my gums that are red and swollen and he asked me if I'm brushing good enough.
I brush after every meal (3 times a day total). So now I don't know if I should get a waterpik/water flosser. Like maybe that would help me out? When I asked my parents about this too, they seemed to think that the spots were no big deal, since they know I brush a lot.
I don't know, I'm just feeling somewhat frustrated today.