Well, tomorrow it will be a week that i've had these babies on and it's taken a lot of adjusting, but I think I've gotten the hang of it.
Once I started using the wax and doing the salt-water rinses, my lips started to feel a lot better. I had an annoying bracket on my lower arch that needed wax for 3 days, then suddenly it didn't bother me anymore.
Because I've had a gap between my front teeth for 32 years, my top lip had a bump on the inside of it. (the ortho said this was from the pressure of my lips trying to push my teeth back as I have a slight overjet- yes a tongue thruster--oh the humanity!!)
Anyway, this bump would rub on the archwire all day, especially when I talked, and became very sore. So like Leslie022 mentioned, I would put wax across my top 4 brackets at night to give my lip a rest, and it really helped!
Now I have a new problem. Either my teeth have moved a bit (oh, can it be true?!!) or I'm just now noticing it, but I have wires poking me behind my back molars and not only is it really hard to get the wax on the right spot- but it doesn't want to stay put. It says to make sure your teeth are dry, but how do you keep a back molar dry- you tell me....!
Anyway I shouldn't complain because i'm speaking and eating much better now. (Yes all you newly braced, it does get better!!) I must admit at first I had a big case of the regrets, and the typical "how am I gonna deal with this for 2 years" thoughts, but now I kinda like the braces.
I actually had a slice of pizza the other day..ok, so I cut it into little pieces, but hey it was still pizza!
My teeth don't ache that much anymore, and I really kind of miss it because it represented improvement. But once in a while a tooth will get a bit sore and I know things are still happening.
My new favorite thing to do is put on a layer of blistex, and then cover it with lip gloss. Sounds like overkill but I swear by it. Sometimes I even forget the braces are there because my lips don't get caught.
Tomorrow I will take a pic, because I swear my 2 front teeth are closer together, but I will let all of you judge.
Thanks to everyone for all the great advice......
and yes, the first week is the worst, but it really does get better
I went from

to

in just one week!